A Romantic Wedding Night
You should have a wedding night check list that includes
preparing the hotel room, packing, accessories personals and
Wedding Night Packing Check List
_____ Bathing suit
_____ Blow Dryer
_____ Camera, Film and Batteries
_____ Cash for tips
_____ CD (Music)
_____ Clothing (Casual dress and semi-formal)
_____ Clothesline, Clothespin
_____ Contact Lens Solution & Eye Drops
_____ Credit Cards/Debit Cards
_____ First aid kit
_____ Hair care products
_____ Intimate aides
_____ Locks for luggage and keys
_____ Luggage tags (personal and airline standard)
_____ Prescriptions and Medications – Aspirin
_____ Shoes (Casual dress and formal)
_____ Travel Alarm Clock
_____ Travel iron or steamer
_____ Walking shoes
_____ Allergy List
_____ Emergency Info
If you have in
your mind the ideal wedding night, fine. But remember to avoid
ideals with reality. Keep your expectations realistic and
do not get too wrapped up in trying to have the "perfect" wedding night.
Expect some foibles along the way and while holding
him to necessary standards of intimacy be reasonably forgiving
and overlook minor misunderstandings.
When a woman loses her virginity,
there may be some bleeding and some initial discomfort. Like
an acquired taste overtime and even on the wedding night you may
experience deep satisfaction and pleasure.
To increase your enjoyment avoid being ritualistic or leaving
all the caressing, play and exploration to him. Ask him what
he likes. Turn on the CD player and play your favorite mood music.
Light candles and incense . Some start off with a muscle
message using oil/lubricant. This can easily go into
foreplay. Penetration will follow naturally.
Sometimes the difference between enjoyment and discomfort is being
too dry. Use plenty of lubricant. Bring a towel to bed if
you're self-conscious about leaving stains on the sheets.
In order to enjoy your husband to the
full he must be fully relaxed and free to be himself. If you
both have a history of enjoying a good pillow fight or
tickling go for it.
Try to compensate for little things that
do not fit into your fantasy wedding night. Keep your sense of
humor, but don't over do it. A joke book can do much to relax a
tense moment. Steer clear of jokes regarding size and
performance. Above all expect the unexpected. Enjoy the
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The key to focusing on your loved one
come the night of your wedding is all about good planning months in
advance. To that end consider these brief tips to enjoying a
relaxing wedding night.
Before the wedding take time to find out the little things your husband to be likes to
have handy. His favorite drink, snack, toy, DVD, gadget, etc. Pack it and bring it along.
Wedding night lingerie, his favorite perfume, a drink or two and the
right music can really help the mood. A card from you to him
and a few words about how you feel about him and your future
together can warm up the evening.
Simplify, simplify, simplify. To many
details will remove you or him from the picture and enjoying the
moment may be difficult. Remember many of the things that
endeared you to him were the unexpected. Leave plenty of room for
that on your wedding night.
expressions of love will well up in his heart and leave him more
inclined to make you his focus on your wedding night.
That said the best planning for your wedding night is that which
will leave you stress free, refreshed and ready to give all your love to
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